ROXY BOURDILLON

Hi! I’m Roxy, an award-winning journalist and the editor-in-chief of DIVA magazine.

My work in the media has earned me a place in both the Pride Power List and the Attitude 101: LGBTQ+ Trailblazers Changing The World.

My debut book, What A Girl Wants: A (True) Story Of Sexuality And Self-discovery, is published by Bluebird Pan Macmillan on 17th April 2025.

Writer, speaker, editor

I am 13 years old and these are my secrets.
1. I have a crush on Jet from ITV gameshow Gladiators. So strong! So pretty!
2. I still play with Barbie dolls. It’s mostly making them scissor. Or snog. Or lie on top of each other with feeling.
3. I just kissed my best friend. Spoiler alert: she’s a girl.


From the suburbs of Leeds to the streets of Sydney, from the queer clubs of London to a quiet life by the sea, through love, family, friendship and heartache, join Roxy Bourdillon on a journey to work out exactly who she is.

What a Girl Wants is the perfect read for anyone who’s searched for their place in the world, for anyone who’s ever been catcalled, anyone who's despaired about their body, fallen in love, had their heart broken and found friends who can put it back together.

From overcoming shame and finding your tribe, to surviving the dating scene and learning to really express yourself, this is a book about joy, empowerment and freedom.

It's a laugh-out-loud treat of a read for fans of Dolly Alderton's Everything I Know About Love and Caitlin Moran's How to Be a Woman - but with a glorious queer twist.

“This is the book I wish existed when I was younger. Roxy has my heart.” – Adele Roberts

“Courageous, moving, bold and beautifully, brilliantly written.” – Daisy Buchanan

“Smart and funny – genuinely brilliantly, laugh out loud funny.” – Laura Kay

“Brilliant and relatable. Wonderfully honest, a joy to read.” – Rosie Jones

“A riot of a book from a leading LGBT literary talent. Hilarious, soulful and true.” – Joelle Taylor

“I wish this had been around when I was 19. And 29, and 39…” – Val McDermid

“What a girl NEEDS, because every girl NEEDS to read this.” – Charlie Craggs

“A guiding light for anyone embracing their truth.” – Lotte Jeffs

“Beautiful, kind, inclusive, hilarious, passionate.” – Rachel Shelley